| |
| |
| |
|
Page: 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 11 12 13 14 15 16 17 18 19
Comments:
<0> no seriously, it wouldnt happen
<0> i do know
<1> wishes, and seriously you're not a medium.
<2> anyways
<2> peace
<2> I have some beers to drink
<0> no, but i think i know him better than you do :D
<2> they aren't going to drink themselves alone
<3> no, she's a large... more cushion for tha pushin' ;p
<0> hes old fashioned in some ways, very unadventerous, in fact hes more of a girl than i am
<0> hes sensitive :D
<1> wishes, and i think i know alot about human relationships than you as i used to help married peeps to save their mariage for around 3 years.
<1> wishes, and i saw alot of types of guys and girls
<0> ah so you only saw the bad ones :)
<0> yeah no wonder you are so pessamistic :D
<1> wishes, no, i saw peeps who had a bad moment in their life
<0> we've had bad moments
<3> wtf's a marriage counselor doing in #php?
<0> we talk
<2> lol Twyce_Dailey
<1> wishes, and sorry, you're human, it can happen i don't hope so but it can whatever you do to avoid it sometimes.
<3> it's like... wishes is the ONLY one here who's EVER gonna be married
<0> most couples forget that part of a relationship. we are friends more than anything, and we talk and respect what each other is saying
<3> it's ****ing IRC for ****'s sake
<0> indeed
<1> wishes, even in this type of situation it can happen
<0> its not gonna happen :)
<1> wishes, again, you don't know.
<3> wishes - there i do have to agree with him... on details but i have to agree
<3> *no details
<3> i mean
<0> hha
<0> i know what makes a good relationship and bad one :)
<3> but
<3> you can't control every situation
<3> for yourself
<1> wishes, you can have a good relationship and cheat on your partner
<3> or your husband
<0> its not about control
<1> wishes, it's called human failure.
<0> its about honesty and talking
<3> wishes - right but there are situation that are beyond your, or his, control
<0> if you are honest and talk about stuff then there should never be any situation
<0> like?
<3> talk all you want, sometimes things happen that lead to other things happening...
<0> how old are you guys?
<1> wishes, wich doesn't exist, if you can remember ONE thing in your life you would change and he can too that's simply the proof of it.
<1> wishes, 32
<3> 24
<0> i wouldnt change anything in my life
<0> i dont think he would either, otherwise we wouldnt be where we are today
<1> wishes, that's lies
<0> not at all
<1> i don't say that you will
<3> its not lies
<3> it's naivety
<0> ok least im talking to people who may have some idea :D
<1> i say that in every human memory
<0> i dislike argueing with teenagers who dont know what they are talking about :D
<1> at least things you disliked or you didn't have control
<3> excuse me?
<0> i think honesty is the key to a good life.
<1> wishes, teenagers are not near 33yo ^ ^
<0> segfault-, yeah i know
<0> im same age
<3> think outside the world of PHP where you can code whatever you want, where you're fully in control... you dont know everything that goes on
<1> wishes, and you aren't honest, admitting the fact that cheating can happen is honest.
<0> cheating can happen, but its not going to
<0> not in this relationship
<1> well maybe
<1> but you can't ensure that
<3> trust me wishes, i'm not the cheating type, i always said no way, can't happen... and in a great relationship... still happened...
<0> sure i can
<3> situation got beyond my control for about 20sec and by the time i regained control of it the damage was done...
<1> you're sort of a divinatrice ?
<3> mind you, i didn't sleep with the girl,... but... still did more than i should have
<1> even myself had a weird moment
<0> Twyce_Dailey, quiet often we take on more guilt than we should have
<3> coworker cornered me and kissed me... took me a while to realize i shouldn't be letting her
<1> i met a girl trough internet, the next day i did go to a cofee with her, trust me, if i didn't stop it, it wouldn't have stopped at cofee
<1> and i was engaged in a fully nice relationship
<0> why were you thinking about other chick then?
<3> you can't control anyone but you
<1> with a very hot girl with lot of tenderness between us
<3> he can only control him
<0> why were you thinking of her in a manor that was not 'friends'
<3> you never know what someone else is going to do
<1> wishes, i did not think about it
<3> which may be considered cheating
<1> i let the moment happen
<1> until i realised i did not want that
<3> and you can't always rely on your ability to stop it when it happens
<1> but in facts, it was cheating, even if i did not have *** with the chick
<3> shock will paralyze you
<0> segfault-, i wouldnt have thought so
<0> i would not consider it cheating at all
<0> or what Twyce_Dailey did
<1> i had the intention (and she had) to have *** with her, the cofee was just to meet
<0> so why did you have the intention then ?
<0> where did you start thinking of her as something other than a friend
<1> why ?
<1> bloody hell
<0> exactly
<1> it was a ****ing ***y chick who offer a moment of ***
<0> see thats where you differe from my hubby
<0> he would phsically be ill if that happened
<1> you don't realise
<3> ok segfault-... you put yourself in that situation....
<1> there was no problems with my girlfriend
<3> wishes - yes i consider that cheating... he put himself in that situation...
<1> the occasion just come at the right moment
<0> yes he did
<0> he intended to cheat
<3> when my incident happened
<1> wishes, i do not negate that
<3> i had no intention of cheating
<0> Twyce_Dailey, i made the comment before he said he went there intending to do it
<3> however
<1> made yourself a correction
<3> i didn't stop it when it happened
<1> if i didn't have the chat with this girl
<0> but why would you even considering screwing another chick if you were happy with your current one
<1> i would not have been tempted by
<3> i was paralyzed... until i realized what was happening...
<1> wishes, the occasion was there and it was temptating
<3> ok i know who not to get relationship advice from now
<0> i have trouble believing it
<0> Twyce_Dailey, i wouldnt call i cheating
<0> what you did i mean
<3> wishes - heh... i can't comment further on that subject ;p
<1> wishes, did you do something one day just because you did give it a try ?
<1> (not related to *** etc)
<0> if a guy chats to a chick online, and plans to meet her for ***
<3> then yes that's cheating...
<1> wishes, nah she did proposed on purpose, i did agreed
<3> like seggy here did
<0> thats clear cut cheating
<0> so you clearly had a problem with the current gf for you to even consider that
<1> and before that dear, there was 9 years of clean relationship with various peeps and the occasion never come.
<0> either she wasnt looking as good, or you had lost that 'spark'
<0> or something
<0> perhaps boredom?
<1> nope, my gf was hot and the relation was coming peacefully
<3> wishes dont waste yo're time... he's not gonna get the point
<0> lol
<1> wishes, i just admit some years after the truth :
<0> i suppose in the end you realized what an *** you were being and didnt go through with it
<1> wishes, sometimes it happen that you can have a weird moment, it wasn't planned you go fully venture in or not.
<0> but if a relationship is a happy one i cant see it happening
<3> that's the problem wishes
<3> you dont see it happening
Return to
#php
or
Go to some related
logs:
#MissKitten
#javascript
#skype
yum jpeglib
#AllNiteCafe
#php
#MissKitten
wget scan darwin
href=javascript:__doPostBack('ctl00$Main$PagedComments$viewComments$commentRepea
#linux
|
|