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<0> club...oh...so the school should do this. The boy needs a male model to teach him! why won't you do this?
<1> Why are you pushing it so hard?
<0> ****..I'll do it. you have him email me and I'll teach him everything
<0> foxx. you think it is nothing
<0> and it will **** this boy up for years
<0> imagine you had a period and had no idea
<2> i never got this education you speak of either
<1> No, I didn't say that, but why do you ***ume it's all that?
<2> and i think i turned out ok
<1> Hiya Log
<3> hiya sweets
<0> club,,..it didn't turn out ok and you know so
<1> How've you been, log?
<3> good, u?
<1> good, thanks
<2> i have respect towards people and i know what "no" means
<0> I'll help your nephe
<0> nephew
<2> cousin
<0> cousin
<2> before you can help him with any ***ual issues, you have to teach him respect and no
<1> I think that kind of advice from a random stranger would mess him up even more
<2> or else he'll grow up to be a ***ual maniac who doesn't respect other people and won't take no for an answer
<2> and good lord, i do not want to see him turn into that
<0> you put him in touch with me.....I will do my best..but I am a stranger
<0> you can do more than I can
<2> granted, i understand what you are saying
<2> and granted, i agree, to some extent, that these are things that have to said and taught to him
<0> what did you teach to him?
<2> but i don't think teaching him how to ride a bike before first teaching him how to keep his balance is a good thing
<0> this is puberty
<2> but puberty is not an excuse for disrespect
<0> this isn't about disrespect
<2> thats what this is all about
<0> he's angry
<0> he has no male figure
<0> you've left him to figure it out by himself
<2> i didn't leave him
<0> he has no male role model
<2> it wasn't my choice to have unprotected *** with some tobacco farmer in bum **** no where
<0> you need to teach him about being male
<3> wtf are you talking about?
<0> he's 13 and he's ejaculating and no one has explained this
<2> he's not ejaculating :-p
<0> how do you know
<2> he spends his nights playing video games
<3> who is 13?
<0> does he have wet dreams? are his sheets stained?
<0> playing video games is bull
<3> and wut's wrong with ejaculating?
<2> i don't know, i don't live with him
<3> i do it all the time...
<0> see..you don't know
<0> at 13..he's having wet dreams
<3> so?
<2> well, if he is, he is
<0> fine..I'll chat with him and inform him
<3> of what?
<0> logger..about his changing body
<3> i suspect he knows its changing
<0> duh
<2> i'll give it some thought
<3> since ur like 13 urself...whut do you know about it?
<0> ya know...this pissed me off. you will let some boy go thru puberty...say NOTHING and hope they figure it out
<0> LOUSY parenting and caring
<3> are you kidding?
<2> i'll think about it
<0> no I'm not
<3> they know more than you do
<0> bull****
<1> Um, no one's that clueless these days
<0> bull****
<2> but i'm fairly certain a conversation about this is not going to address the problems at hand
<0> go read solotouch.com
<3> well, a stump knows more than you do, evidently
<0> logger..you are ignorant and thoughtless
<3> indeed i am
<3> and you are meddlesome and moroni9c
<3> i shuuder to think the problems that lad will have after you "help" him
<0> you are thoughtless
<3> oh, i think alot
<0> i'd teach him all about ***
<3> i am always thinking
<2> yes, teaching about *** is good
<0> he's 13...he needs to know
<2> but there are more things at hand here than ***
<3> oy
<2> and these things should be brought out into the open before he learns about ***
<0> well......part of males acting out is their surges of male hormones
<3> silly nonsense
<2> but a large portion of the way someone acts is how they see they're parents act while they are growing up
<2> mainly between the ages of 2 and 6
<0> he's 13....he's getting pubic hair...when do yo give him instruction??
<3> geez gloo, how old are you?
<0> granted..his parents may have been wrong...they helped to create his approach to life
<3> your syntax and sentence structure suggest very young
<0> logger..you are annoying...I'm almost 50. eat crap
<3> bull****
<2> i don
<0> ok...I'm 19. feel better?
<0> hahaha
<3> i figured as much
<1> g'night, all
<2> i don't want to have this conversation because i didn't have this conversation when i was that age
<3> nite foxx
<2> i don't know the answers to half the **** he's got questions for
<0> club,..exactly...you don't know how to have the convo cause no one had it with you
<2> but at the same time, i'm 22
<2> i don't want to play daddy
<0> it isn't playing daddy..it is being big brother
<2> big brothers don't have these conversations
<2> these conversations are had with fathers
<0> yes they do
<2> well, if that's the case, i don't want to play big brother either
<0> teach him
<2> i'm not ready to have this conversation
<0> so do you think if you hooked him on to me that he would be okay to have and educational conversation about the human body?
<0> he wouldn't
<2> i don't think that would be wise either
<0> absolutely
<0> I feel bad for him. No one will be a man in his life
<2> i don't feel bad for him, he won't listen to anyone
<0> cause no one is reaching him
<2> he won't let anyone reach him
<0> and why is that?
<2> because i don't think he's ready to let someone reach him
<0> his father abandoned him
<0> he's hurt
<2> and he's went through counseling
<2> and his counselour says he's done
<0> his mother is doing a lousy job...yes or no
<0> you are doing a lousy job,..yes or no
<0> he's been let down
<0> his councellor has given up on him
<2> yes
<2> and maybe yes
<2> i never went to a counselour meeting
<0> and no one has taught him **** about becoming a man
<2> well, i think on this issue we are going to have to agree to disagree
<0> club..well...maybe you should have. Ithink it would have benefitted both of you
<2> because i personally do not think his issues deal with ***uality
<2> at present point
<2> at present point, i personally think his issues deal with upbringing
<0> at 13..the hormones are raging
<2> i'm not disagreeing
<2> however, at 13
<2> thats 13 years of conditioning
<0> well..sounds like his homelife was problematic
<0> but he is 13
<0> I truly feel bad for him. I wish I could do something but I can't
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