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<0> if you wont allow her to have a job because you buy everything for her
<1> wish my parents had taught me about budgeting..
<0> I consider that sheltering her
<0> you're not exposing her to the real world
<0> you're sugar coating the world
<1> did you miss the part that she gets a generous allowance...
<0> hiding the nasty elements from her
<1> uhm
<1> she's in high school dude
<1> public high school
<0> then she is going to move out and be on her own
<1> it doesn't get any uglier than that
<1> where are you living?!
<2> stevev: ive told her this several times.
<1> let's see
<1> she understands.. hard work and commitment to a goal gets you through things (SCHOOL AND GOOD GRADES)
<0> how do you expect her to move out and not need your help?
<1> she understands how to budget and work within the defined means she has (her allowance)
<1> gosh.. i'm really off the mark here.. i must be nuts..
<0> if you provide her with everything she wont be prepared to pay bills by herself
<1> stevev ... she will always have my help... but she'll also know how to set and achieve goals.. and live within her means...
<1> you're missing the big picture here
<2> lol
<2> you're such a typical old fashion parenting types
<0> yeah
<2> over protective
<2> etc
<1> eddy_ .. you got high last weekend.
<0> she shouldnt need your help
<2> yeah
<1> hush... you have no idea what you're talking about..
<2> haha
<2> you took xtc
<2> about 4 months ago
<0> she should be able to move out when she 18ish and be able to be completely self sufficent
<1> and?
<1> no stevev ..
<2> you have no idea what ur talking about
<0> but when you provide her with evreything and make every decision for her
<0> thats not healthy
<1> i'm hoping she'll go to college
<2> your brain is teh fried!1!one!1 o hem gee
<1> an still need lots of help
<1> uhm.. eddy_
<0> hoping or instructing her?
<1> i can't make her go to college
<1> i can only inspire her to go..
<1> *shrugs*
<1> at this point.. she is inspired
<2> shes going to rebel
<1> =)
<2> eventaully
<1> that remains to be seen.
<0> yeah I think she may grow up to resent you and that would be horrible
<1> i'm doing what i think is right
<2> give her some room
<0> if she goes to college out of state and she sees what the real world is like she is gonna partyyyyyyyyy
<2> to figure out who she is
<1> stevev .. if she resents me with a college degree.. and a law degree and a nice comfy life
<2> to get to know her trueself
<1> LET HER RESENT ME
<0> yeah, thats all I was trying to say -- give her some space
<1> hahaha
<1> you are both nuts.
<2> she needs to know who she is
<1> i'm not sure where you came to the conclusion that she doesn't have space
<1> that she doesn't get to know who she is
<0> you're living your childs life for her
<1> ya'll are making a lot of ***umptions
<2> exactly
<0> you wont allow her to have a job or make her own money
<0> you give her X amount of money to spend
<1> yea i'm terrible
<1> i want her to stay focused on her education.. and doing some good work in her life
<0> some children want to have their own job
<1> wow...
<0> and make their own money
<1> i'm going to hell
<2> haha
<0> now you're getting defensive
<2> no ****
<2> lmao
<1> yea a little
<2> we were just analyzing
<2> your parenting
<2> ;)
<1> neither you have any idea what you're talking about
<1> you're making a lot of ***umptions
<0> heh.
<0> yeah, i was never 15 before
<1> an generally being wrong.
<2> suger
<2> i bet when u were a teen
<2> you ****ed up
<2> and rebelled
<0> well naturally, we must be wrong
<2> so you figured
<2> your going to be tottally over protective
<1> eddy_ .. that's the point
<1> i did all those things
<1> i had my way with life at 15
<2> smoke pot
<2> take xtc
<2> lolol
<1> an it didn't make things any easier..
<0> and you came out fine
<0> let your little girl **** up as well
<0> you live you learn
<1> uhm stevev ..
<0> ...
<0> yeah?
<1> i've had to bust my ***... i'm 10 years behind my peers... an it was the hardest ****ing road i've ever had to take
<0> because you puffed a little weed?
<1> sorry.. but i'm pretty sure i'll do whatever is necessary to make sure my kid has it easier...
<1> that's part of being a parent.. you know.. WANTING THEM TO HAVE THINGS BETTER THAN YOU DID
<0> she may be successful and rich and yadda yadda
<0> but i bet she wont be completely happy
<1> check in with me in 10 years...
<1> =)
<0> ill check in with your daughter in 10
<0> ;)
<1> hahaha
<1> she'll be allowed on efnet by then i'm sure
<1> *chuckles*
<0> you sure?
<0> there are bad influneces on efnet
<1> not on my network
<1> she won't be..
<1> but i'm sure she'll have her own by then
<1> =)
<3> what's up all
<3> i got 18 bags of dope today
<3> high on a lot of em
<0> I just personally think its better to let your child live her life and possibly **** up from time to time
<3> L>~
<0> jeeeeeez 18
<1> yes stevev ...
<0> wtf did that cost
<1> you're so right.
<0> o get the stick out of your ***
<0> go check on your daughter
<0> she might be too close to a marker or the window
<1> i'll let her do whatever she pleases.. and hope her undeveloped brain behaves itself in an adult world..
<0> she could possible loose a braincell from the fumes or a sniper mnight get her through the window
<1> ...
<1> now you're just being an ***hole..
<1> so bugger off.
<1> you don't know what you're talking about
<0> you turned into a sarcastic bitch so dont expect me to treat you nicely
<1> so .. unless you want to have a respectful conversation..
<1> you can kiss my ***...
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